Your mess is your message!
Maybe you’ve heard that before. The concept gets talked about a lot. I’ve heard it suggested more than once that we make our mess our message.
Truth is, even though I’ve heard it many times already, I feel like it’s only just starting to become a reality for me. To mean something. And I have to confess, I’m grappling with it.
What that’s meant for me is that over the past week or so I’ve been in a dark place rediscovering the lessons I learned from my mess. And learning some new ones as well. Cos there’s always new lessons to learn and apply in life, right?
But I didn’t want to go into that dark place again.
I thought, and hoped, I was past that mess. That I didn’t have to look at it again. That part of my life was history. In the past.
Yeah, right. Apparently, I was totally wrong about that.
What am I really saying here? Yep, you have a right to ask, especially if you’re still reading this.
Here’s the thing. I’m not up to sharing what I’ve been going through yet.
What I will share is what I’ve learned from it.
Just because you’ve been through a particular situation once and learned profound lessons through it, grown amazingly and flourished, DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON’T BE CALLED TO LEARN AT A DEEPER LEVEL THROUGH A VERY SIMILAR SITUATION AT ANOTHER TIME IN YOUR LIFE.
The concept blew me away to be totally honest.
I’d been strolling through life with a ‘been there got the T-shirt’ kind of attitude thinking I’d never find myself in a similar situation.
What a curve ball that was when reality hit me!
Where am I at now? I’m coming up for air.
I’m out of the deep dark hole, ready to accept the many lessons I can learn from this situation so that I can serve others going through similar stuff in their lives.
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Daphne Wells is an ICF credentialed coach who assists women in business create the business and life they dream of. She lives in the beautiful South Island of New Zealand from where she works with women business owners and entrepreneurs worldwide. She’s President of ICF NZ Southern. Grab her FREE eBook ‘Bring them to me now, baby! How to attract all the clients your business can handle’ at www.DaphneWells.com