Are you holding yourself back?

  Are you holding yourself back? Does this sound familiar? You’re holding yourself back, aware you’re hiding parts of you. On occasion you’ve popped all the way out, bravely said or done something that reflected who you truly are.  Afterwards, people you believed...

Independence and control

  Control and Independence   What is the difference between being independent and being in control?   If you like what you’ve read and you WANT MORE, I’d love for you to join my community.     WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE,...

Choose and Decide

  Choose and Decide   Change involves choosing and deciding.   Choosing can be confusing.  Here’s how to get clear … WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE, BLOG OR WEBSITE?  You can, as long as you include this complete blurb with it:  Daphne...

Indepdence … what is it?

  What does independence really mean?   When we talk about being or becoming independent what do we really mean?  Here’s what it means for me and what I mean by it when I speak about it. If you like what you’ve read and you WANT MORE, I’d...

Courage and strength.

  Courage and Strength   What is the difference?   You have both and you use both.  Yet they are different.   If you like what you’ve read and you WANT MORE, I’d love for you to join my community.     WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR...

New year, fresh start

  New year, fresh start.  New decade, new you. “Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, whispering, ‘It will be happier.’” Alfred Lord Tennyson   What do you need to do for this year to be different to last year? For me, 2019 was an exceptionally...

Your opportunities await you

    “If you want to succeed, you must make your own opportunities as you go.” John B Gough   You’re running and constantly doing.  When you’re done that task, you’ll do another.  You’re probably like many others and have been raised with an...

You matter xx

    “Fuck you, I matter!” said Deirdre to herself. Why couldn’t she say it to Sylvia?  Even after all these years she still didn’t feel safe opening her mouth around her vicious and self-centred sister.  Pretty much every day, as children Sylvia...

What do you want more of?

      What do you want more of?   We humans always want more. It’s as though we’re hard-wired to never be satisfied and to always want more of something.  Many of us travel through life wanting all the time and never feeling as though we’ve received the...

Consistency wins …

      Consistency wins!   “If people knew how hard I had to work to gain my mastery, it wouldn’t seem wonderful at all”  These are Michelangelo’s wise words after spending four years lying on his back painting the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel.  That...