Have you ever said this?


I’ll be happy when …


I’ll feel better when … 


NO you won’t!


The truth is happiness is an inside job!


Chasing happiness is a waste of your time.


Expecting others to make you happy is never going to work out well.


Happiness is a choice.


You either choose it or you don’t.




“When you wake up each morning,

you can choose to be happy or choose to be sad. 

Unless some terrible catastrophe has occurred the night before, it is pretty much up to you…

choose to make it a happy day” 

Lynda Resnick


What that means is you choose how you feel about everything. 


Let’s say your home is messy and you wish everyone would tidy up their own mess; they, however, don’t even see it as mess.  You can choose to whinge and whine about the mess; or you could choose to be grateful and happy for the people who share your home. 


Suppose you’re not looking forward to cleaning up the kitchen at the end of the day and prepping food for the next day.  You could choose to complain that no one else ever does it; or you could choose to be happy and grateful that you have food, a home to live in and people you care about. 


You don’t want to do the laundry … choose to be grateful you have clothes to wear and the means to clean them. 


Your work is so busy you feel overwhelmed … choose to feel happy that you have clients and work to do that means you receive money to pay your bills. 


My encouragement is for you to choose joy, choose to be happy, and choose to be grateful in every moment. 


“Happiness is a choice. 

You can choose to be happy” 

Valerie Bertinelli


And remember, your happiness is your responsibility.  

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