Will you be strong?
Will you stay strong?We’ve talked recently about making choices that will get you closer to your goals.
To consciously choose every moment, every time there is a choice you can make.
What choice will move you closer to fulfilling your goals?
Which choice will move you closer to realising your dreams?
Assuming you’re making those wise choices (you are, right?), there’s another potential obstacle that almost always tries to take you off track.
What? There’s more? (yep, I hear ya!)
Yes, there is!
Let’s back up here.
You’ve make a new choice, right? One that will help you achieve your goals and realise your dreams. And you’re taking actions as a result of that choice.
Good on you! I’m super proud of you.
What happens next frequently occurs without us even realising, which is why I’m alerting you to this possibility.
What I’m about to share with you is relevant whether your choices are personal or business related.
Whatever area of life you’re making new choices in, this can happen. Truth is, it usually does, so listen up cos it will sneak up on you when you least expect.
What happens next is that your subconscious, that part of you that works on autopilot, will pop you back into auto-mode and you’ll find yourself taking actions that you’d have taken in the past and no longer want to.
It does that because your subconscious wants to protect you.
Your subconscious naturally wants to keep you safe and it perceives that by taking different actions you’re putting yourself in the path of potential danger. So it causes you to take your old auto-action steps. To do what you’d always have done in the past in a similar situation, but which you no longer wish to keep doing.
The secret here is to stop yourself as soon as you realise this is happening, turn yourself around, recommit to your new choice and take new action accordingly.
And that takes strength.
It takes courage.
It can be scary.
It can cause you to doubt your new choices.
Maintaining your new course of action requires you to be vigilant and strong.
Vigilant in observing yourself.
Strong in keeping yourself on your new track.
Which takes me back to my question – Will you stay strong?
Let me know if you want help to stay strong and on your new path. You could pop me an email to daphne@daphnewells.com and I’ll get right back to you!
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Daphne Wells is an ICF credentialed coach who assists women business owners create a steady stream of clients PLUS consistent, abundant cash flow in their business whilst having fun. She lives in the beautiful South Island of New Zealand from where she works with women business owners and entrepreneurs worldwide. Grab her FREE eBook ‘Bring them to me now, baby! How to attract all the clients your business can handle’ at www.DaphneWells.com
