From ‘people-pleaser’ to ‘on-fire’

From 'people-pleaser' to 'on-fire' I wasted so many years being a ‘people pleaser’. Doing whatever he asked of me. Allowing him to decide for me. Letting him tell me what to do, where to go, what to pick. In short, I was letting him walk all over me. I was...

Who are you choosing to be?

Who are you choosing to be? Oh NO!!! Not again! “I’ve got a headache. You’ll have to go and milk for me!” He shouted at me from the other bedroom as soon as my morning alarm rung. Happened so frequently it became the norm. I sank deeper and deeper into the mire that...

Kick your inner critic to the kerb!

Kick your inner critic to the kerb! Yep you heard me, your inner critic. You know it well! It’s that voice that keeps speaking to you. Criticizing you. Putting you down. Causing you to doubt yourself. How many times every day does your inner critic win? Every time you...

What’s the current shape of your self-love?

“If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love anybody else... And I think as women we really forget that” Wow. Jennifer Lopez really knows her stuff on this. The Bible says it like this, “love your neighbour as you love yourself” (Mark 12:31). I was brought up to that...