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Relationships are life

by | Business, Numerology

Relationships affect everything

Relationships are pivotal to your experience of life.

Relationships come in many different shapes and sizes, and are everywhere.


Your relationship with you

First and foremost, and often underrated, is your relationship with yourself.

Your relationship with yourself is foundational and influences all aspects of your life.


Trust is the bedrock that defines the stability of any relationship, especially with self.

Can you trust yourself to keep the promises you make to yourself? 



Every relationship in your life is representative of your relationship with YOU

Your relationship with you influences every other relationship in your life.

Your relationship with money is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with your significant other is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with your business is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with your family is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with your clients is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with your staff is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with everyone you come across is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with everything in your life is an extension of your relationship with your.

Your relationship with YOU is the most important relationship in your life.

Your relationship with YOU determines everything else that shows up in your life.  It determines everyone who shows up in your life.

“As you change your relationship with yourself all of your other relationships change.”


Knowing yourself is key.

How well do you know you?

We perceive life and relationships through the lens of our birth code and our past experiences.




Relationships are mirrors

We see different versions of ourselves in the different relationships we are part of in this life.

Relationships are where we get to see ourselves.

We come to know different aspects of ourselves in different relationships.


Relationships are a two-way street

Any relationship is susceptible to challenges that if left unresolved can cause conflict debt.  Conflict debt can be more harmful than the conflict itself.  This is why understanding relationship dynamics is so powerful.

The different people involved in a relationship bring different gifts and challenges to the relationship.

Each person gives differently to each person they’re in a relationship with.

Each person receives differently from every person they’re in a relationship with.

Understanding these dynamics is freeing and empowering.

In a family this can trigger jealousy between siblings who perceive their parents to be treating others differently.  Some children expect to have the same relationship with their parents as their siblings; potentially that’s a recipe for disaster and their expectations will inevitably be unmet.

We are energetically coded to give and receive in relationships according to our own freedom code.  It comprises of our birth code, energy grid and our birth card.  You cannot change how you are energetically wired– it’s your energetic DNA.  I calculate this for you using my advanced numerology skills and share my discoveries with you.

While every relationship has the potential to be positive and thrive, it takes commitment and contribution from all parties to ensure that.


Relationships are powerful triggers for our growth and evolution

In relationships we experience opportunities and challenges to grow that we’d never experience on our own.  These lead us to furthering our growth and evolution, to fulfilling more of our purpose and potential.


In all relationships we have choice and free will

You get to choose who you be in each and every moment of life.

You get to choose how you show up and who you be in relationships.


Play your part proactively

Even though you cannot change the potential gifts you bring to a relationship you have total choice over how you choose to give your gifts to and receive gifts from the other party in a relationship.

You have total choice over whether you are proactively leaning into your potential and possibility in life or staying stuck in your comfort zone.

It’s totally up to each of us if we choose to remain in the shadow side of our potential gifts or not.  We alone are responsible for our own choices.

We are, however, here in this lifetime to grow, expand and evolve.

Life without personal growth and expansion is merely existence.

Nature tells us that no living organism prospers by merely existing – go find and observe a struggling plant to see proof of that!


Message me when you’re ready to have greater understanding and confidence in your relationships.  Or pop on over here








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Daphne Wells coaches women to design a life and business that feels free by helping to release expectations that don’t resonate and fully embrace what makes them happiest. An advocate for independence and author of Decide – Choose your own path, Daphne helps women find their inner strength and take courageous action all over the world.

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