It all started when I stopped playing the blame game.

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It all started when I stopped playing the blame game.

Then and only then was I able to grow on the inside.

To really grow up.

Once I’d owned and accepted that what was in my life was because of me.

And only me.

That day when I chose to step out of victim mentality to become my own hero.

All my life I’d heard excuses for why people’s lives were less than ideal. I thought that was normal. I didn’t know anything different. I didn’t know there was another way.

When I finally realised I was totally responsible for what was showing up in my life, everything changed.

The predator males showing up in my relationships with their controlling, manipulative, abusive muscles well-honed were a direct result of my feelings of unworthiness. I didn’t believe I was good enough for anyone different.

The lack of abundance was a direct result of my scarcity mindset. That’s how it was in my family. There was never enough of anything. And so it was in my home also.

Everything changed for me.

When I chose to step out of victim mindset and be my hero.

And it all started with me calling time on playing the blame game.

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Daphne Wells, founder of Passion for Growth, guides you to grow your business to full bloom while creating a lifestyle you love so you can make a difference and make money. For over 6 years she has represented highly-motivated, courageous and successful women in business, small business owners, coaches, therapists and entrepreneurs. As an ICF credentialed coach, with a history of birthing and growing small businesses, Daphne has a deep passion for inspiring you to recognise and appreciate your magnificence whilst you grow your fabulously successful business. Her true magic lies in empowering you to do it your way. She lives in the beautiful South Island of New Zealand from where she works with women business owners and entrepreneurs worldwide.  She’s President of ICF NZ Southern. Grab her FREE eBook ‘3 Keys to GET MORE CLIENTS’ at www.DaphneWells.com  

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Daphne Wells coaches women to design a life and business that feels free by helping to release expectations that don’t resonate and fully embrace what makes them happiest. An advocate for independence and author of Decide – Choose your own path, Daphne helps women find their inner strength and take courageous action all over the world.

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