This is all it takes

by | Business, Numerology

Just keep on keeping on.

It’s all it takes.

Even when it feels never-ending.

Even when it seems unfair you’re not there yet.

Even when it appears the resolution you seek is elusive and unreachable.

When you know what you want and what you don’t want, your commitment to leave what you don’t want behind to get what you do want will keep you going when the going gets tough.

How do I know?

It’s been almost 10 years and finally I’m at the end of what often seemed would never end.  Nevertheless, I’m still here standing, still keeping on keeping on.


Daphne knows what it takes


What kept me going?

I was determined to change my life for the better.

I decided to get free of the life I’d been living; and to design and create a life I chose, rather than one that others chose for me.

My commitment to my decision kept me me going.

That showed up in the following specific areas.


💜My commitment to cleaning up the mess

The mess that occured as a result of the horrendously abusive man’s presence in my life.

It took well over 3 years to navigate and create a viable plan to evict him from MY home – after a few failed attempts, lots of personal healing and finding a support-crew I could trust.

After that began a legal journey that’s taken more than 6 and a half years.

There were times when I was tempted to give up.

There were times when I felt like ending it all.

There were times when I wasn’t sure I could endure the bullying and harassment from those who believe his lies and continue his abuse.  On a side note, it’s fascinating that his lies are sooooo polished that he enlists supporters to do his dirty work while he stays safely hidden as the coward he is.


💜My commitment to myself to create a life I love

Even at my depths, I believed I deserve better. I dug my heels in and did the hard work.

I went deep with my inner work of healing the trauma, of seeking out what was under the under to expose and heal it.

I forgave.  Them. Him. Mostly me.


💜My commitment to be the leader of my own life

Having lived all my life up till around 10 years ago keeping everyone else happy, doing what they wanted without considering what I wanted, making decisions based on their needs rather than my choices I knew it was time to be lead me.

I unlearned the conditioning of family and society that had told me who to be and how to behave.

I learned how to lead me.

I courageously stood strongly amidst those who tried to push me back into the box they’d grown accustomed to me being in.

I endured being banished and shunned by family.

I watched ‘friends’ scatter.


💜Throughout my journey, I’ve doubled-down on my commitment to me

Among many treasures, I discovered my life purpose.

I discovered my freedom code.

I know who I truly am and why I’m here.

I know what I’m here to do and who I’m here to help.

Now I live and breathe that every single moment of every single day.



You’ve probably heard people say that the people you’re here to help are a previous version of you and that’s certainly true for me.

Through my own transformation and healing journey, I figured out what works and what doesn’t

I identified all the essential elements to creating a life you love.

Along the way I’ve honed it even further as I personalize it for each of my clients.

No one size fits all.  The principles and steps that I took work for others when it’s personalized for them.

They will work for you when I personalize them for you.

This is why I choose to work with my clients on a one-to-one basis and in small intimate circles where the women I’m here to help get the personal support they need so they feel safe, solid and secure to share their magickal gifts with others.

If you’re a woman in her midlife ready to create those far-reaching ripples of impact and riches you long for with ease and flow, let’s chat.

I’ll identify the 3 things you need to focus on in the next 3 months to help you make more money and have more freedom.  Choose a time for your f.ree Freedom Session

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about the author

Daphne Wells coaches women to design a life and business that feels free by helping to release expectations that don’t resonate and fully embrace what makes them happiest. An advocate for independence and author of Decide – Choose your own path, Daphne helps women find their inner strength and take courageous action all over the world.

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