Midlife is not a crisis!

by | Business, Numerology

What society has labelled the midlife crisis is not the crisis we’ve been led to believe it is.

The truth is, it’s part of your life journey.

We’ve all heard people talking about midlife crisis as though they’re a bad thing – the word crisis in the name is foreboding all on its own.

The term crisis can make us feel as though there’s something wrong with us, when in fact it’s perfectly natural to reassess who we are, why we’re here and what we want multiple times as we progress through life.

In essence it’s simply a transition of identity and self-confidence that naturally occurs anywhere from age 37 through to 65.  As with any transition you get to choose how you respond to it.

You’ve grown and transformed throughout your life journey and there comes a point when it’s natural to reflect and wonder who you will be moving forward.

There are multiple layers to your personal energy, each of which have their individual cycles.  Your unique experience through life is created partly by these converging energies.



Imagine these all going on in and around you, because the truth is they are whether you’re aware of them or not:

💜💜 9-year seasons – you experience four of these that commence anywhere from age 25 through 34,

💜💜 7-year cycles – these begin the day you are born and cycle perpetually through your life,

💜💜 13-year periods – these also begin the day you are born and cycle perpetually throughout your life journey,

💜💜 annual cycles,

💜💜 52-day cycles,

and that’s just your personal energy!

Additionally, for most people there’s your prebirth and rebirth at ages 44 and 45.

Then there’s the universal energy that influences you as well.



Your energy shifts and changes as each cycle completes and you enter a new cycle.  Even though this happens in each individual cycle that energy shift influences all the other energy cycles running at that time.

One of the biggest gifts you can give yourself is a deep knowledge of who you ‘be’ in this life-time.

💜💜 Who are you?

💜💜 Why are you here?

💜💜 What’s your contribution?

💜💜 What’s your purpose?

The deeper your understanding of your personal energy and its cycles, the deeper you know yourself.  The deeper your self-awareness is the more you are able to navigate these shifts and changes with ease and flow, rather than them being a particularly bumpy time or the crisis that these transitions are deemed to be in our society.

When you feel your confidence waning, you feel unfulfilled and as though you’ve lost your purpose and reason for being that’s a good indication that you’re in this period of transition.

Often these periods will feel more intense when they coincide with children moving out of home – the empty nest syndrome, parents’ health issues, relationship status changes or your own personal health concerns. Any of these events may trigger you and increase your stress levels which can leave you with infinitely more questions than answers.

Whether this period of transition occurs naturally or is triggered, you get to choose how you handle it.  You can box on, doing it all alone or you can reach out for help.  As a certified numerologist I can read your charts and help you navigate the inevitable change with more ease and flow than otherwise.

Whether you choose to navigate this period of transition alone or with support please know that what you’re experiencing is a part of your life journey.

If you would like my help, pop on over here.


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Daphne Wells coaches women to design a life and business that feels free by helping to release expectations that don’t resonate and fully embrace what makes them happiest. An advocate for independence and author of Decide – Choose your own path, Daphne helps women find their inner strength and take courageous action all over the world.

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